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Thank
you for allowing me this honor and privilege to share my story. Many of you asked me to send my speech
about how
EcoQuest has benefited my family, so I have typed it. Feel free to pass
it along to others. I have added an update paragraph and a new photo to bring you to
the beginning of 2010.
I
called my talk, “A Time For
Firsts.”
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Airplane
flight — WOW...Awesome to see God’s handiwork
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Sales
Managers rank — The
cloud of doubt has been lifted
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Shopping
for school supplies/clothes for 6 children with EQ money
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1st
Convention
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Speaking
to a crowd!!
If you ever saw the movie “Eight is Enough,” then you have a very vivid
picture of my family. I wondered if they secretly
videoed my family so they could make the movie! I always knew what the next scene was going to be. When I left
the theatre, I was so tired—it
reminded me of WORK and my LIFE!
I personally gave
birth to 8 wonderful children. My oldest son Joe is 29, married
with 4 girls. One daughter is 27 and single. At home we have 4
boys and 2 girls
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17, 14, 11, 9, 6, and 3. I joined EcoQuest 10
years ago and did it in between home schooling and birthing
babies, mostly part-time. That was “B.E.”-
before Emily!
After
eight and a half months of pre-labor pains, hospital stays, and bed rest
on my left side drinking gallons of water, Emily was born weighing 5
pounds. We were informed that she had Down Syndrome and
would need open-heart surgery in the coming months. Life suddenly went
into “A.E.”
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after Emily.
My new life-changing challenge was to “KEEP HER ALIVE." My goals and mission
were to proceed with determination, drive, denial of self, and decisive
measure to ensure that she was “kept alive.”
Her schedule consisted
of 2 months or around-the-clock feedings every 3 hours and then 2
months of every 2 hours around-the-clock feedings. These required
collecting breast milk, fortifying it for added calories, and putting it
in a 2-ounce container to feed her through her N-G tube (feeding
tube in the nose).
Along with this, medications were given at different intervals
during the day. After 4 months of virtually no sleep, numerous trips
to the hospital and doctors, exhaustion took on a whole new definition.
Still, there was only one option: “KEEP HER ALIVE”! My strength to physically do what had to be done, came
ONLY from the Power of God. By this time, my physical ability to carry
on was exhausted! God does and will do the impossible.
Still 6 pounds at 4
months, she was admitted to Eggleston's Children’s Hospital in
Atlanta for Open Heart Surgery. Instead of an expected 2-weeks' stay,
it turned into a 4-month stay. Besides open heart, she also had a
G-Tube and Fundo-placation surgery, 2 blood transfusions, and a heart
cath.
While in the hospital
I received a gift that would change my life and, later,
Emily’s health. Cadle & Alicia McEachin sent me
Essentials for Life and a Fresh Air Buddy (personal
air purifier).
These products played
a part in my health. The Buddy was a Godsend for Emily.
It literally kept her from constant congestion and drainage.
Before receiving these
gifts, I had pretty much determined that I would not stay with
EcoQuest. These “gifts of life” changed that. Somehow, someway,
someday, I wanted to repay them. Money wasn’t an option, but working the
business could be. I decided to “Keep EcoQuest Alive”!
It would be two and a
half years before I could even begin to fulfill my desire to say
“thanks.” Those years were either spent in multiple doctors' offices,
the ER, or hospitals at least every week up until the end of 2006. From
October to January 2007, Emily was doing better. Cadle called and asked
if I would join him in working a recruiting project. I agreed to give it a try.
In December, my sister
gave me some information about how nutrition and enzymes could help
children with Downs. Well, I knew where to get Enzyme Nutritionals!! January 2nd I
began an intense regime of our Infinity2 products with Emily. These
included:
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Essentials
for Life
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Essential
Fatty Acid
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B Complete
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Immune
Plus with Colostrum
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Total
Flora Support – 2 a day
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Digest-A-Meal - 2 a day
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Healthy
Bones and Teeth - 2 a day
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Eye Formula
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Infi-Aid
– on occasion if she seemed to have any aches
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The Enzyme Diet - (whey
formula) -
now I use the soy chocolate with no side effects. Some Downs
children have a problem with soy. I only used about 1-2 tablespoons
mixed in some liquid with her other vitamins. I broke open the
capsules and put them in her formula. She would drink it with a
straw. The Essential Fatty Acids don’t mix well with liquid, so I
“hid” tiny drops on a spoon with her solid food. Now, she likes it
squirted right into her mouth! Crazy I know! She seems to like the
extreme taste.
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The FIRST day her stomach issues ceased! The first day! The first day! The
first day!
No more arching her back from pain. No more screaming with cramps
No more gas pains.
No more sleepless
nights - most important for mom!
January 10th - Her
occupational therapist was amazed at her progress just from the week
before. He said, “It was as if a light came on in her head.” For the
first time, she was exploring toys in detail, focusing on how everything
worked. Her speech therapist noted on January 11th that she was more
alert, attentive, and interactive. Her attention span had increased in
just one week. She began saying words with ease. In two weeks time, her
vocabulary was in the 30’s and also signs.
January 12th - She
stood up and took one step! We noticed that her “baby fat” wasn’t as
apparent. Just feeling her arms and legs, you could tell she was
developing muscle tone. The muscle tone in her legs began to increase.
January 27th - She had
a toy with handles that she stood up on and began – not walking - but
running up and down the hallway. Talk about a happy family, we were all
over her with excitement. Just two weeks ago, her legs were still very
“loose noodle.” Now she’s on her on!!
Six weeks after
starting the vitamins she started cruising, standing on her own, and now
she’s running! She loves to “show mom how it feels to drive an EcoQuest
car. She has a child’s coupe car that she loves to get in and ride
through the house, saying “Bye-Bye" as she closes the door with her
purse on her arm!!
It’s been nine months
now, NO hospital, ER, or Doctors office visits!!!!!!
Emily is G-Tube
free, feeding herself with spoons and forks on a regular diet and
basically ordering her older brothers and sisters around! She even
whistles and signs for her dog, Toby. Her vocabulary is increasing daily
along with signing.
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The lessons I learned from raising Emily can be applied to
business. My advice to you would
be to “KEEP IT ALIVE”—your
business, of course. Treat it as if it were your flesh and
blood—a gift from God. You will have some hard days. As one of
Emily’s CICU nurses told me, "It’s not a Bad Day, just a Hard Day." There
will be days with long hours, days where you want that afternoon nap, or
go to bed early. Taking it easy is not always an option if you want to KEEP IT
ALIVE.
Is it worth it, you
may ask? Emphatically, YES! Were those years of keeping Emily alive worth
it? Absolutely! If I could visualize for you all the joy, the smiles, and
the laughter she has brought to our family and really anyone who
meets her, you would understand. Her first day in the
learning center, she walked in or rather “ran in” when she spotted the
kids and toys—not even looking back to tell me bye. She had a mission,
a goal, a love of playing.
Here's a 2010 update. Emily is now 5 (Christmas
photo above) and still
doing great. She doesn't speak in sentences, but she understands
everything and is a happy child. She has speech and occupational
therapies in a pre-kindergarten school and is doing well socially. Very
outgoing! If I skip her supplements on a busy day or if I'm at work and
no one in the family gets them for her, we see changes in her comfort
level and digestion. She takes Essentials for Life, Total Flora Support,
Healthy Bones & Teeth, Digest-A-Meal, and The Enzyme Diet. We try not to
give her milk, preferring juice or water. We use ionized, alkaline water
but as of now we don't have our machine and have to get water from a
friend. We believe in the water and would love to own a Living Water.
I leave you with these
words to penetrate deep inside you heart, mind, and soul. Say it with
me: KEEP IT ALIVE!
God bless and GO
PLAY!! (EcoQuest style)
Esther McClendon
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